anyway, i came out of hiding to add to this and find myself frustrated. i've had numerous observations and discussions with girl friends i've brought with me to shows over the years, some i specifically asked what they thought of the male to female ratio, others simply brought it up themselves. there simply isn't a succinct answer to the question, its complicated and messy, i just ended up writing an overly long message to this and deleting it all because it was pointless. does sexism exist in the medium? yes. is there anything that can be done about it? no.
and really that is all that can be said without rambling, going in circles and getting nowhere fast. its the truth and i can either wring my hands about it (and i certainly have wasted time on that before) or i can go on with my life. having said that, the last No Fun Fest i was at, there were quite a few girls/women/females there and i was pleased to see not all were of the "girlfriend" variety.
on the subject of Africa - i was there a few years ago, for a short time, studying the effects of apartheid. every town i came to, i asked if there were any experimental bands or anyone playing "experimetnal" music. i also asked anyone selling records or in a store, the one record store i was at in cape town i also asked. generally people gave me weird or confused looks (and probably deservedly so). i blame it all on Extreme Music From Africa, because of that album i went in search of something i'm not sure exists. heck, i even asked street kids offering me drugs, i figured they'd know as well as anyone. most talked about reggae music though and either didn't understand what i was talking about or didn't care (once again, i can't say i blame them).
and schik - i either find your views extremely depressing or i just find the whole human race depressing, i'm not sure which.
anyway, i'm going to slink back into hiding now.
